🎁3 surprising ways you’re doing better than you think


Hello Reader,

I hope your holidays included special moments with your family and friends. My holidays were not "picture perfect," but they were good!

And good is good enough!

I want to take a moment to remind you of something important: you’re doing better than you think.

This year, you’ve given your kids incredible gifts. These gifts might not have been wrapped or placed under a tree, but they’ll shape their lives for years to come.

The gift of example

You give the gift of example every day. Your kids see you standing up for what’s right, making intentional choices about what comes into your home, and facing tough topics with courage.

Your example teaches them resilience, integrity, and the importance of standing firm in their values.

The gift of connection

And let’s not forget the gift of connection. Through conversations at the dinner table, bedtime stories, or even just being there to listen, you’re building a foundation of trust and love that will carry them through life’s ups and downs.

The gift of protection

I know one more gift you’ve given your kids, and it’s a big one. You’ve turned to Defend Young Minds for our books, articles, and guides. That might feel like a small thing, but it signifies something much greater: your commitment to protecting your children’s minds and hearts in a daunting digital age.

By teaching them how to navigate the online world responsibly, you’re showing them that

  • they matter,
  • their well-being is a priority, and
  • they have the tools to make good choices.

For these reasons and more, I’m cheering you on!

These gifts might seem simple, but they’re anything but. They reflect your love, dedication, and belief in your child’s well-being.

As we step into the new year, remember: you’re doing better than you think. You’re not just raising kids; you’re nurturing the next generation.

And I’m honored to be part of your journey.

Kindly,

Kristen

P.S. See you in the New Year! I’ll be sending my next email on Thursday, January 2nd, where I’ll introduce a brand-new article about age-appropriate sex talk topics. Until then, enjoy this time to love on your family and friends, recharge, and savor all the yummy holiday leftovers!

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