🚩1 in 10 kids will be s*xually abused—Here’s how to protect yours


Hello Reader,

Did you know that kids who are taught body safety are safer from sexual abuse?

It’s true.

Here’s the heartbreaking reality:

  • 1 in 10 kids will experience sexual abuse.
  • 93% of abused children know their abuser—and often trust them.

One of the most effective ways to prevent abuse? Teaching kids body safety.

When children understand personal boundaries, recognize inappropriate behavior, and know who to go to for help, they’re far less vulnerable to abuse. But how do you start these tough conversations?

Books!

As you know, I’m a big fan of using books to tackle tough topics with kids. ;-)

So in honor of Child Abuse Prevention Month, we’ve gathered our favorite books to make body safety conversations easier. You'll find them in our latest article, Teach Kids Body Safety: Top 9 Books That Help Prevent Sexual Abuse.​

These books:

  • Offer age-appropriate scripts and stories.
  • Empower kids to speak up.
  • Help prevent sexual abuse before it starts.
  • Teach kids to recognize and reject grooming tactics like pornography.

There’s even a gentle, healing story for children who have already experienced harm.

Every page you read together builds trust, opens conversations, and helps your child to be safer in a world that isn’t always safe.

So grab a book—and start today.

Kindly,

Kristen

P.S. Don’t miss my conversation with Diane Boden on the Clear Intentions podcast. We dive into why it’s so important to talk with kids about pornography early—before curiosity and online access collide—and share practical strategies to help kids respond safely if they ever come across explicit content. Listen here.

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