Hello Reader, In today's digital world, giving kids a clear definition of pornography is crucial to protect their physical and mental health. Our newest article, Defining Pornography Clearly: How Parents Can Better Protect Kids, offers a practical definition that focuses on the real impact on a child's developing brain. Not just vague legal terms. We understand that these conversations can be challenging. That's why we’re equipping you with clarity and tools to discuss this sensitive topic. The article will help you:
More importantly, you’ll learn that anything that prematurely sexualizes a child, or awakens arousal before they are ready, is pornographic, regardless of legal classifications. We also provide guidance on how to talk to your kids about pornography, empowering them to name it, understand its harm, and confidently reject it. Clear conversations are the first step in protecting our children. By equipping yourself with a clear definition and practical strategies, you can give your kids the confidence and tools they need to safely avoid the digital dangers they’ll surely face.
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Hello Reader, Have you seen this eye-opening video from Smartphone Free Childhood? It tackles a critical topic: Smartphones and kids–especially in their bedrooms at night. It’s a compelling reminder of the immense pressure we place on our kids when we give them smartphones. Suddenly they have to deal with Pornography Bullying Haters Predators Hackers Not to mention, savvy sextortioners!If you've already made the decision to give your kid a smartphone, please know it's never too late to...
Hello Reader, Has this happened to you when your child goes to play at a friend’s house? They come home and tell you they had the best time ever—but it turns out “playtime” really meant hours on YouTube and video games, not the kind of play you had in mind. Or how about when a child comes to play at your house, and unexpectedly brings an iPad? One mom shared how this happened to her, and when she asked him to put it away during lunch, he said no because “his mom lets him.” When they drove to...
Hello Reader, Ever feel like restricting YouTube is like playing whack-a-mole —you keep locking devices down, but your kids still find a way through? One mom thought she had every device locked down…until she found her son watching racy bikini videos on their Echo Show. She didn’t realize it had a built-in browser. That’s the tricky part about YouTube: it shows up everywhere. And even YouTube Kids or Restricted Mode can’t fully protect your child from harmful or addictive videos. So what does...