❤️ 3 Ways to Keep Media from Destroying Your Daughter’s Confidence


Hello Reader,

If you’ve ever wondered why so many girls feel like they’re “not enough,” here’s a hard truth: sexualized media and porn are training girls to see themselves as objects to be judged.

The American Psychological Association warns that sexualized media harms girls’ mental health by pushing them to view their bodies as things to be consumed.

I raised two daughters in a world of increasing sexual objectification. It’s much worse today.

Which is why so many parents asked me to write a book just for girls! Good Pictures Bad Pictures Guide for Girls: How I Stay Safe, Smart & Confident will be released in mid-March. Stay tuned to be a part of my Launch Team!

We definitely need to counter the toxic, objectifying lies because they start destroying our girls’ confidence from such a young age.

In fact, researchers found girls begin absorbing these messages between ages 5 and 8.

Porn then doubles down, whispering lies like:

  • Your value is how you look.
  • Your job is to be “hot.”
  • You get the most attention from sexualizing yourself.

No wonder early exposure is linked to lower self-esteem, body anxiety, and shame.

Here’s the good news: You don’t have to let porn steal your daughter’s confidence.

Help your daughter recognize porn’s lies—and reject them—so she can build real confidence from the inside out.

Here are a few ways to get started:

Let’s build our daughters’ confidence on truth, not the toxic messages of porn’s lies.

Warmly,

Kristen

P.S. If your kids have already been exposed to pornography, you don’t need to face it alone. Our guide, My Kid Saw Porn, Now What?, provides a SMART Plan for Parents to get you through the first critical steps.

Plus, a wealth of expert advice on questions you may face:

  • How do I remain calm (when I’m screaming inside)?
  • What questions do I ask about my kid’s exposure to porn?
  • Does my child need professional counseling?
  • How do I discipline my child with love?
  • How can I help my child if they’ve developed a porn habit?

Be prepared and get the download now.

P.S.S. Join us at the Heal Young Minds Conference on March 13th in Birmingham AL. Counselors, school counselors, nurses and others who work with children are invited. This is a groundbreaking event with an impressive line-up of speakers. All coming together to educate professionals on evidence-based strategies for treating kids harmed by pornography. Seats limited–register today for early bird pricing.


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