⁉️🤔This Therapist Asked the One Question Everyone’s Afraid to Ask


Hello Reader,

We recently received a very honest question from a parent and family therapist about how to help teens find healthy alternatives to pornography (and the M-word!).

It's a tough but important topic, and we're tackling it head-on in our new article:

Are There Healthy Alternatives to Porn for Teens? A Question Parents Ask

In this article, we explore:

  • Why "soft porn" isn't a viable solution for teens.
  • How sexual self-stimulation can reinforce porn addiction.
  • The surprising effects of masturbation on the brain's reward system.
  • Why abstaining can be crucial for recovery.
  • How cultivating sexual self-discipline can prepare teens for healthy relationships.

This isn't about shaming, but about empowering teens! They need to know how to make healthy choices that lead to long-term well-being.

I think you’ll gain some valuable insights 👍


Warmly,

Kristen

P.S. Very few people like to tackle these tough topics, but parents often ask us for guidance. Everything we recommend is based on science with a little common sense thrown in for good measure.

Which tough topics would you like us to tackle? Hit Reply and let us know!

P.P.S.🍹 Summer SIPS & TIPS Coming Next Week! For the next month, we'll be sending you short "sips" of digital safety info combined with a few "tips" you can use right away. Digital Safety practices are crucial during summer. Use our emails as conversation starters and share these emails with your friends and family--or anyone who loves kids!

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