⚠️ Parent Warning: The BOP House is Popular with Teens


Hello Reader,

I ain’t gonna lie–March has been BUSY for me! Probably for you, too!

So today, I’m popping in with a quick 3 minute video.

Have you heard of the BOP House? Keep reading because you’re going to find out more reasons why girls need our attention when it comes to pornography.

It’s an interview between Fight the New Drug and Heidi Olson, a pediatric sexual assault nurse examiner who knows firsthand how pornography harms children physically and emotionally.

In this short video, Heidi describes a popular social media “influencer house” called The BOP House. It's a glamorous mansion in Florida where young women live together, create pornography, and drive traffic to their OnlyFans accounts. And they earn millions!

Their combined social media reach is 90 million followers!

If your young daughter hasn’t heard about the BOP House yet, your older teen has.

I invite you to get the facts by taking 3 minutes to watch this video (appropriate for adults and older teens).

Then take action and arm your daughter. Help her recognize and reject how media messages teach girls to objectify and degrade themselves.

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Then continue the conversations. Use chapter 2 in my new book, Good Pictures Bad Pictures Guidebook for Girls, to get that convo going with clarity and thoughtful discussion prompts. You can still grab your copy at a 25% discount for another few days!

These discussion prompts define what objectification means, and how it can lead to seeing oneself as an object, damaging self-confidence and relationships.

Get the facts.

Arm your kids.

Continue the conversations.

Now pat yourself on the back! You’re doing the hardest job on earth!

Kindly,

Kristen

P.S. It's been released! The NCOSE Dirty Dozen List identifies 12 mainstream entities each year that the National Center on Sexual Exploitation believes facilitate or profit from sexual abuse and exploitation. See who made the cut for 2026.

P.P.S. Heidi Olsen recently spoke at the Heal Young Minds Conference–and shared a lot of eye-opening info. I’ll be sharing that and much more from our speakers in an upcoming article. Stay tuned!


Help your child build an internal filter that can help shape their future. Resources like our Good Pictures Bad Pictures books give parents a simple, age-appropriate way to talk with kids about pornography before exposure happens.

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